In a world flooded with noise, quick opinions, and surface-level interactions, it takes a rare kind of voice to bring us back to what really matters: true human connection.
That’s exactly what physician and sociologist Monalyn Labitigan Zouzias offers in her powerful debut book, Mastering Meaningful Communication, published under the pen name Raquel L. Zia—a name she’s now proudly tying back to her full identity.
Combining her rigorous medical training with a deep sociological lens, Zouzias delivers a guide that’s equal parts heart and strategy. With glowing Amazon reviews and praise from readers, bloggers, and professionals alike, her book has already struck a chord with those seeking not just better conversations—but better relationships, period.
In this exclusive interview, we sat down with Zouzias to learn more about the inspiration behind her work, the challenges of communication in today’s world, and why she believes a single pause can change everything.
What inspired you to write about effective communication?
When I was a sociology major, I loved studying about people and their interactions with each other, as well as overlapping psychological concepts like how we ourselves relate to the world.
Going onto medical school and specialty training, I intensely studied scientific and medical knowledge but did not have any formal classes on how to communicate with my patients.
I realized that knowledge, no matter how valuable it may be, cannot serve its purpose if it is not conveyed effectively and most importantly, with care.
I also realized that in my own personal relationships, so many conflicts could be avoided just by taking a step back and learning communication skills.
I found that many communication techniques I learned, such as practicing empathy and being present were so useful in every area of my life. This inspired me to create this easy-to-read, relatable and concise guide for others to refer to and apply to their own day-to-day living.
The most important lesson I’ve learned through my own communication journey is the ability to pause – which allows us to avoid being reactive and controlled solely by our emotions. If we could just pause, take a few deep breaths, and ask – what is really going on? How do I respond to this situation without negativity and defensiveness? – You’re more than halfway there!
Is this your first publication?
Apart from scientific articles, this is my first book. I am planning to write more books that combine with my medical expertise with my interest in the humanities.
What do you hope readers will take away from Mastering Meaningful Communication?
My main goal is to create unity among all of us and for readers to be able to find common ground with those who think differently than themselves.
After reading this book, I would like readers to be able to see their fellow human beings with dignity and respect, regardless of differences in opinions, and for readers to be able to see different perspectives apart from their own.
We are ultimately all the same at our core and I hope that this practical guide will uncover this for its readers, whether it be at work or at home.
Why do you think communication is such a challenge for so many people—especially in today’s world?
I believe that this stems from the very human desire to be acknowledged and seen by others. While this is natural and in some cases essential to form deep bonds in certain relationships, trying to draw this acknowledgement from others more than from ourselves leads us to certain expectations from others that may not necessarily be met.
Social media adds to this challenge in many ways. Let’s recognize that everything we truly need is found within ourselves, and from this place of feeling whole within ourselves, we can communicate what we truly desire when interacting with others.
Who do you think will benefit most from this book? Is it for professionals, couples, leaders… or everyone?
This book is for everyone! All the concepts in this book can be applied to professionally and in personal relationships. I think it is particularly great for those in leadership positions to incorporate into their employee development education.
In your opinion, what’s the most common mistake people make when trying to communicate effectively?
Making certain assumptions about other people they communicate with.
It is really important to recognize that we ourselves have our own biases, then from there, make an attempt to understand the other person by asking clarifying questions rather than going by our own assumptions.
How do you balance being clear and assertive without coming across as rude or aggressive?
This comes down to tone and body language. A relaxed face and open body language diminishes the vibe of rudeness and aggression, and speaking clearly without fumbling words while making eye contact projects assertiveness. In addition, avoid interrupting just to speak.
Hear the person out, then based on what they just said, then formulate your response calmly, starting with phrases conveying empathy “I hear you, that’s a good point, now hear me out:…”
Complete the sentence: The world would be a better place if people just stopped judging themselves and others.
A Voice for Unity in a Divided World
What makes Mastering Meaningful Communication stand out is how deeply personal it feels—without ever losing its practicality. Monalyn Labitigan Zouzias doesn’t simply teach communication; she lives it, having spent her life navigating the intersection of science and soul.
Born in the Philippines and raised in the multicultural heartbeat of New York, Zouzias speaks from a place of profound lived experience. Her background as a physician and NYU-trained sociologist brings a rare and powerful perspective: one that bridges analytical precision with emotional intuition. She’s fluent in Tagalog and English, and currently studying Spanish and Greek—further proof that for her, communication is a lifelong practice, not a fixed skill.
In Mastering Meaningful Communication, that passion shines. The book is gentle, thoughtful, and refreshingly accessible, packed with real-life examples and small, actionable shifts that add up to major transformation.
Whether you’re dealing with workplace tension, family dynamics, or just struggling to get your point across without sounding harsh or defensive, this book meets you where you are—and guides you somewhere better.
Mastering Meaningful Communication is a movement toward more intentional, human conversations. Monalyn Labitigan Zouzias reminds us that connection is both an art and a skill, and that empathy can be learned, practiced, and shared.
If you’re ready to listen more deeply, speak more clearly, and connect more meaningfully—with others and with yourself—Mastering Meaningful Communication is the place to start.
This book is a must-read for anyone who interacts with others—whether in business, friendships, or personal relationships. Communication is vital: done poorly, it creates misunderstandings and hurt feelings; done well, it builds bridges, opens doors and hearts, and forges lasting connections.
Zouzias’s book is both accessible to the everyday reader and thoughtful enough to satisfy anyone seeking a deeper understanding of human nature and the secrets of meaningful communication.
The book is available now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and IngramSpark.
Whether you’re navigating a tough conversation at work or just hoping to connect more deeply with the people you love, this book belongs on your shelf.
For interviews, speaking opportunities, or media requests, Monalyn Labitigan Zouzias can be reached at lzpublishing00 {at} gmail {.} com